Don't know where you are in your brewing journey, but maybe avoid IPA's, though they don't all have grapefruit flavor. A number of American hops will give that type of flavor. If you're like me, you could go for some of the traditional English/German styles which tend to be more malty and call for earthier style hops.
If you go to a brew pub, you can always get a flight with a variety of styles and see what you like. other than doing a homebrew session on a beautiful Saturday morning, few things quite as exciting as a flight of beer at a brewery you've never been to.
What are thinking about brewing?