Really, multiple things will lead to perceived sweetness. Namely:
adding lactose
using crystal malts
using dextrine malts
higher mash temp
using a yeast with lower attenuation
lower hopping rates
Lactose will add sweetness but it’s not the “sweet” you think. Not like sugar, but like… well, milk.
For a sweeter beer I would use a combination of dextrine malt and crystal malts at a higher mash temp. I would also try to use a judicious level of hopping.
I forgot my thoughts on this. First, you can’t go by a determined amount per 5 gal batch. Your better off going by percentage. For example 1/2lb in a 10lb grist is 5%. Yet 1/2lb in a 5lb grist is 10%.
Carapils says 5%, carafoam says 40% max. I don’t think I would ever go near as high as 40%!
Just to add to what some of the other folks have already said, the sweetness you get from a beer like Dragon’s Milk doesn’t come from lactose. Lactose gives you a heavy mouthfeel and a bit of sweetness, but not sugary sweet. To me it’s mostly the mouthfeel. But ethanol by itself is sweet, at least to some people. Once you get upwards of 10% ABV, it starts to get more noticeable. Add to that a bunch of caramel or crystal malts and a high mash temperature, and that’s how you get to a sweeter high-alcohol beer without the flabbiness of lactose.
I get your comments now, thanks. I’ve never thought of them much other than helping with head retention which Mr. Janish alludes to anyway. Damn brewing… always gottta learn stuff!